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Dr. Tom R. Fitch volunteers as Medical Director for Arizona End-of-Life Options, where he shares his extensive medical experience and professional wisdom with our organization. His distinguished career as an oncologist, hematologist and palliative care physician spans 30 years of service to his patients. He most recently retired from the Mayo Clinic in Scottsdale after 17 years with that premier organization. Today, he faces a wholly different medical challenge.
A very personal decision
by Tom R. Fitch, MD
Due to the remarkable advances in medical care, wonderfully we are living longer. Aging, however. is commonly accompanied by illness and as a result, there are an increasing number of people living with advancing serious illness. The vast majority understand they are living with a terminal condition, yet they and their families are unprepared for the final stages of life. Relatively few have had discussions with their physicians about their prognosis and end-of-life care options. Their wishes and goals are not discussed and no meaningful informed consent regarding further disease-directed treatments is provided. “Let’s try this,” becomes the default recommendation, and patients are commonly led down a path of relentless disease-directed therapies of limited-to-no benefit. Tragically, more treatment too often results in more suffering and shortened survival.

Overcoming taboos         
We must help patients and families overcome the taboo of discussing their prognosis, dying, and death. We need to facilitate meaningful end-of-life care conversations among patients, their families, and healthcare providers; promote the completion of advance directives; and encourage discussions of patients’ wishes, goals, and values. Patients and families must be informed of the many end-of-life care options available -- including the expertise of palliative care and hospice providers, discussions regarding the possibility of stopping disease-directed therapies, withholding or withdrawing more advanced supportive care and/or devices, voluntarily stopping eating and drinking, and palliative sedation.
           In addition, as a physician and patient, I believe that patients near the end of their life should have access to medical aid-in-dying (MAID).

My heartfelt thoughts
           With the expert end-of-life care currently available, dying and death can be meaningful and peaceful for many. But to believe all deaths are “natural” --peaceful and without suffering -- is just wrong. I cared for patients with cancer for more than 30 years and increasingly provided palliative and hospice care over the final 17 years of my career. I saw agonizing deaths despite my best efforts, and it was not rare for patients to ask me how I might help accelerate their dying. That, however, was not an option in either Minnesota or Arizona where I practiced. 
          Now, I too am faced with terminal illness. I have both multiple myeloma and non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma and, despite aggressive care, I have not achieved remission. My cancers are incurable. I contemplate dying and my death and those thoughts include consideration of medical aid in dying. I do not know if I would ever self-administer a lethal dose of medications, but I pray that the option is available for me. I fully respect the conscience of those who oppose MAID; they are opposed for passionately held personal beliefs and values. I simply ask that they similarly respect my strongly held beliefs and values.
Shared commitment
          Guidance in the AMA Code of Medical Ethics understands this divide: “It encompasses the irreducible moral tension at stake for physicians with respect to participating in assisted suicide. Supporters and opponents share a fundamental commitment to values of care, compassion, respect, and dignity; they diverge in drawing different moral conclusions from those underlying values in equally good faith.” 
           MAID is now legal in nine states and the District of Columbia, available to more than 70 million residents. After nearly 50 years of real-word experience, there has been no evidence of the “slippery slope” or “increased societal risk” opponents routinely cite. We have seen no indication of a heightened risk for women, the elderly, poorly educated, the disabled, minorities, minors, or those with mental illness. There has been no rising incidence of casual deaths and no evidence to suggest that MAID has harmed the integrity of medicine or end-of-life care.
          The MAID laws clearly provide adequate safeguards and allow for the position of dissenting physicians. The laws respect their conscience and give the right to any physician not to participate. Those of us who support MAID are asking for the same --- respect for our conscience and considered judgement. We do not believe we are doing harm. We are caring for a competent adult, who has a terminal illness, with a prognosis of six months or less. We are providing patient-centered care consistent with the patient’s wishes, goals, beliefs and values --- helping that patient avoid protracted, refractory, and avoidable suffering.
          One false narrative espoused by opponents needs to be addressed, that “participation in MAID is suicide.” Participants do not want to die; they have a progressive terminal illness, and meaningful, prolonged survival is no longer an option. They have full mental capacity with an understanding of their disease, its expected course, and their prognosis. They have the support of their family. They feel their personhood is being destroyed by their illness and they want their death to be meaningful and peaceful. None of this is true for people who commit suicide.
Disease no longer in charge
          Personally, I no longer struggle with the ethics, morality and other controversies surrounding MAID. Ethical principles and moral laws alone are just not sufficient to answer the complex questions surrounding an individual’s dying and death. And our diverse country and our Constitution forbid us from imposing our own religious and faith beliefs on others. When we try, we are forcing others to conform to our beliefs and we are turning a blind eye from truly seeing the very real human suffering that is in front of us. It is devastating for patients if we ignore their life stories, their family, their culture, and the impact of their disease and treatment on their life and well-being. The value of their life, as they define it, has vanished and they want to die on their own terms. This is not a challenge to God’s divine sovereignty. Rather, it is a challenge to the disease itself, and the patients are vowing that it will no longer be in charge.
          As my cancers progress, I too want to be in charge. I want the legal option to die, if need be, before it is too late to consent to my own death. I desperately want to avoid recruitment into that borderland where I would vegetate as neither here nor there. I ask for your unconditional trust and I ask that those opposed to MAID for themselves, respect my prayerful discernment and personal requests for end-of-life care as I believe is consistent with my needs, beliefs, and values.
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